Embracing Authenticity and Liberation

Life has a deadline. It’s a reality we all face. Some choose to ignore it, while others grapple with the uncontrollable. Personally acknowledging this truth has emboldened me to live fearlessly and authentically.

My journey to self-acceptance began with the discovery of my Queer (LGTB) identity after a life-altering divorce. Although I embraced my Kink (BDSM) lifestyle, shame hindered my ability to fully enjoy it. My critical view of others mirrored my own inner struggle, hindering my personal and professional life.

In 2020, my daughter’s identification as a transgender non-binary individual introduced me to the world of trans identity. This experience spurred my training in sexuality and gender identity, leading me to support other TRANSparents and advocate for understanding gender diversity.

A pivotal moment came when my daughter reminded me that I am more than just a mother of a trans person. This prompted an introspective journey toward honesty and self-acceptance.

Liberating myself from deceit brought an unparalleled sense of freedom, reminding me of the high cost of self-betrayal.

My process involved self-compassion, inner exploration, and a relentless pursuit of peace. I realized the significance of external support, empathy, and a safe space for genuine self-expression beyond my immediate circle.

Sharing this transformation isn’t just a change in my public image; it’s a commitment to impart my learning and support those in need. It’s a testament to my personal and professional metamorphosis.

Thank you for being with me on this journey. Your presence and support mean the world to me.

With gratitude,

Maria Elena